Aurora Colorado Christian Counselor April Thomas-Kenney

Aurora Colorado Christian Counselor April Thomas-Kenney

Imagine a place where you can come as you are and work through the concerns that are causing you distress. Within this space you will find that you have the freedom to be honest about your situation. Here, you can explore the concerns that are hindering you from living a fulfilling life and work to find the root of the problem. Now, imagine working with a supportive therapist who will join you as you journey through the storms of life.

April Thomas-Kenney is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who provides counseling for women from a Christian perspective.  Collaboratively, she works with you to identify your goals for treatment. A biblical approach is integrated with psychological concepts to help guide individuals through the healing process. April is dedicated to providing a place of healing, growth, and relationship. She believes in being relational, transparent, and honest in her faith with the hope of helping others to heal.

If you prefer traditional counseling/therapy, April is flexible and does not rely on a one-size-fits-all approach. Therapy is personalized to fit your needs. She believes that you have many strengths that will assist you with healing.  Her desire is to help you to live the life that you deserve.

Post Falls Idaho Christian Counselor Kriss Mitchell

Post Falls Idaho Christian Counselor Kriss Mitchell

Kriss Mitchell is a Licensed Counselor in the States of Idaho and Washington as well as holding certifications in Rehabilitation Counseling, a Doctoral Degree in Natural Health and Board Certification from the International Board of Pastoral and Professional Counselors.

Her area of specialty is PTSD and trauma as it relates to sexual, spiritual, emotional and physical abuse and is trained in EMDR therapy which is considered the most effective therapy for trauma. Her personal history is one which allows her to empathize with abuse victims, veterans, addicts, victims of bullying tactics and understands the journey it takes to heal and restore personal value as well as identity.

Mesa Arizona Christian Counselor David C Hubbard, Ph.D

Mesa Arizona Christian Counselor David C Hubbard, Ph.D

Dr. Hubbard is a Licensed Psychologist, helping individuals and couples in Maricopa County since 1991. Having been trained in various methods, he is able to tailor an individual approach consistent with Christian principles and values to fit the needs of most individuals and couples.

Greensburg Pennsylvania Christian Counselor Lorin Zimmerman

Greensburg Pennsylvania Christian Counselor Lorin Zimmerman

Grace Wellness Center is a group practice where our counselors all incorporate a faith based counseling approach with sound clinical practice. Our goal is to help people be emotionally, relationally and spiritually healthy. We offer counseling in many convenient locations throughout Western PA and accept most insurance plans.

Bethel Park Pennsylvania Christian Counselor Stephen Luther

Bethel Park Pennsylvania Christian Counselor Stephen Luther

Grace Wellness Center is a group practice where our counselors all incorporate a faith based counseling approach with sound clinical practice. Our goal is to help people be emotionally, relationally and spiritually healthy. We offer counseling in many convenient locations throughout Western PA and accept most insurance plans.

New Kensington Pennsylvania Christian Counselor Nicole Dericks

New Kensington Pennsylvania Christian Counselor Nicole Dericks

Grace Wellness Center is a group practice where our counselors all incorporate a faith based counseling approach with sound clinical practice. Our goal is to help people be emotionally, relationally and spiritually healthy. We offer counseling in many convenient locations throughout Western PA and accept most insurance plans.

Burleson Texas Christian Counselor Malinda Fasol

Burleson Texas Christian Counselor Malinda Fasol

Dr. Fasol is a licensed professional counselor, who believes in treating the whole person: spiritual, physical, cognitive, and emotional. She believes in integrating psychology, theology, and spirituality as she works with couples and families to help them live to their full potential. Dr. Fasol also co-authored a book What Do A Christian Be?, a novel to help adolescents understand ethics and morals from a Christian perspective.

Greenfield Pennsylvania Christian Counselor Beth Allen

Greenfield Pennsylvania Christian Counselor Beth Allen

Grace Wellness Center is a group practice where our counselors all incorporate a faith based counseling approach with sound clinical practice. Our goal is to help people be emotionally, relationally and spiritually healthy. We offer counseling in many convenient locations throughout Western PA and accept most insurance plans.

Irwin Pennsylvania Christian Counselor Stephen Luther

Irwin Pennsylvania Christian Counselor Stephen Luther

Grace Wellness Center is a group practice where our counselors all incorporate a faith based counseling approach with sound clinical practice. Our goal is to help people be emotionally, relationally and spiritually healthy. We offer counseling in many convenient locations throughout Western PA and accept most insurance plans.

Anger Management Begins With Knowing Your Anger Style

Anger Management Begins With Knowing Your Anger Style

Guest Blog Post by M. Rivest, Ph.D.

Isn’t it interesting that people express their anger in so many different ways? Some appear so calm you wouldn’t even believe they are mad, while others explode over the littlest things.

The “Temperament Theory” describes file temperaments that will help us to see a clearer picture of the different ways that people can get angry.

Which one is your anger style? Use this short guide to find out.

 

I. Melancholy Temperament

A. Tend to internalize anger

1. Thinks about getting even

2. Can be angry for years

3. Can misunderstand and become angry

4. Tends to remember all negative events

B. Internalized anger affects physically, emotionally, spiritually

1. Physically: loss of appetite, migraines, ulcers, back pains, etc.

2. Emotionally: withdraw, become moody, relive events in their mind

3. Spiritually; little time for God, may be angry with Him, too, loss of ability to forgive

II. Choleric Temperament

A. Tend to internalize and externalize anger

1. Internalized:

a. thinks of ways to get even

b. especially angry if not getting the recognition they think they deserve

B. Anger will affect them physically, emotionally, spiritually

1. Physically: go nonstop to the point of burnout to get revenge; become cold and calculating in appearance

2. Emotionally: play “head games,” cruel, abrupt language; no tolerance for anyone or anything; may appear “nice” on the outside      but inside they retain anger

3. Spiritually: little room for God; may continue to attend church, but their heart will not be there; no room for love or foregiveness

 III. Supine Temperament

A. Tend to internalize and externalize anger

1. Internalized:

a. let people walk over them without saying a word

b. will be personable and charming while keeping a record of what others have done

c. do not want to make waves

d. need to be included so they hold their anger in

e. mask their anger by saying that their feelings are hurt

2. Externalized:

a. after a long time they will be unable to keep their anger bottled up

b. they will explode

c. can express anger physically and verbally

B. Anger affects them physically, emotionally and spiritually

1. Physically:

a. migraines

b. stomach aches

c. ulcers

d. headaches

e. unable to tell that these symptoms come from anger

2. Emotionally:

a. become withdrawn because they dwell on their “hurt”

b. lose their gentle spirit, become withdrawn, others avoid them

c. cry a lot

d. ignore others

3. Spiritually:

a. little room for the Lord

b. little room for good thoughts

c. feel rejected by people and by God

d. focus is on their “hurt feelings” and rejection

IV. Sanguine Temperament

A. Tend t o externalize their anger

1. hot tempered and explosive

2. swing from happy to sad

3. if someone tries to motivate them to be happy, they can become angry and explode

4. forgets the reason for the anger soon after they ventilate it

B. Anger affects them physically, emotionally, spiritually

1. Physically:

a. tend to overeat

b. neglect their body

c. may hurt themselves

d. may punch or hit walls and other objects

2. Emotionally:

a. mood swings to becoming down and depressed

b. cannot be motivated by others to feel better

c. others will not want to be around t hem

3. Spiritually:

a. Little room for thoughts of God

b. deep into self and upset

c. think they need someone with “flesh” to talk to

d. need to learn to communicate with God

e. need to listen to Christian tapes, radio and/or television and interact with other Christians

f. no room for love or forgiveness while angry

V. Phlegmatic Temperament

A. Tend to not become angry, but will internalize it when they do

B. Become angry when someone is trying to motivate them to do something they don’t want to do

C. Cannot be motivated to change once they become angry

D. This anger (which is minimal) will affect them physically and emotionally

1. Physically:

a. they will try to motivate someone else to handle the situation

b. may try to negotiate a peaceful solution to avoid expending energy

c. will not expend much physical energy themselves

2. Emotionally:

a. show very little emotion

b. “feathers are not easily ruffled”

c. tolerate difficult people more easily than most

3. Spiritually: anger is not intense enough to affect them in this area.

Can you imagine what happens when different anger styles cross?

Dr. Michael Rivest is a certified Sex Therapist and Christian Marriage Counselor in Winston Salem, North Carolina, one of the many talented Christian Counselors on ChristianCounselingUS.com.